Few days ago i read an article about family ties. Pretty interesting and it gave me insight, the very enlightful one. This article said that most of our fears was inherited from our parents accidently. It meant that our parents didn't mean to do that because actually they only wanted to protect us from being hurt. There's no need to blame them and waste our energy only to satisfy our anger towards them. It's better to let go and break the ties -the negative one- so that we'll become healthier emotionally.
After reading this i started to track my fears. Hmmm...it turned out to be much more than i thought. I fear a lot and that really gave me an aching for years. That's bad baby...really bad.
So here i am starting the move to breaking the family ties. First, i'm gonna give myself big warmest hug ever for being a victim of fear for so many years. I'm not 100% guilty. I'm just an ordinary human whom make mistakes sometimes. Second, I'll forgive my parents -especially mom whose anxiety sometimes messed my life- for inheriting those fears to me. I know you didn't mean to do that. You just try to protect me from hurt. I really aprreciate it. Thank you for your caring affection :-) *warm hugs*. Third, i shall let go of my past and start a new day as the new me ^__^
That's all my insight for today. So long fears....! *waving*
Grogol, March 8th, 2011
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